Thursday, November 15, 2007

I'm just going to come out and say it.....

I'm pro-choice. I've decided to stop caring if you are going to judge me for that. I am not a murderer. I do not think that all unborn babies deserve to die. I am just on the side of women who live in a country that does not support single and working mothers. A child that is unwanted lives a sad life, because whether or not they were told, they can tell that they were not wanted. I don't think there is automatic motherly love once the baby is born. Some women do not have maternal instinct and because of that the child does not deserve to live a life in which they know that their mother does not love them. Adoption is not always the easy answer because adoption is expensive and carrying a child to full term is hard, People who are looking into adoption are also picky and want the perfect looking child. If you are a child that was not adopted, then you live your life in foster care. That's not a good life either. To never feel like you fully belong to a family because no one wanted to permenantly keep you. I don't think I could handle that.



The other thing is that people think that if abortion is outlawed its going to go away. Not true! Women had abortions when they were illegal and got really bad infections and died. That's not promoting a life culture either. I don't like abortion, and I don't think I would ever have one, but I don't know that for sure, and I don't think that taking away access to abortions is the answer to the problem.

These opinions have not just come out of nowhere. I've done research and come to the conclusion that this is the best option for me. If you are pro-life then I completely respect and understand your position. Please do not judge me and pretend like you know everything about me after reading this. I'm not a one-sided person. I think a lot about things before I form an opinion on them, If you want to have a respectful and peaceful conversation about this, I would be more than willing. Thanks for reading,

I'm recomending a video:
When Abortion was Illegal (it's a documentary, not sure on the year)

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